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A little dysfunction with your partner? Don’t panic, maybe it’s not that bad. We talk about it with Franck Ancel, psychoanalyst.

This situation is still taboo, sometimes experienced as a shame. How to overcome this feeling?

The first thing to do is to make your partner feel guilty. Sexuality has many faces, it is not necessarily classic between a man and a woman. It is possible to love oneself sexually other than with the sexual organs. You have to get out of the organic aspect to ask yourself the question of the mental, the sensual, when we see things more from the point of view of desire.

It is not so easy to broach the subject…

Beyond the breakdown, is always important. Do not hesitate to relieve yourself of guilt and seek new practices that allow you to find desire, to reinvent your sexuality. The breakdown can concern any partner. We are not machines, we do not repair sexuality like a machine that no longer works. Breakdown is a very simplistic term for what sexuality is and refers to a mechanized era. We must consider the biological aspect of the body but also the psychological and spiritual aspect of the person.

When should you consult?

This problem can be episodic so we must talk about it. You can make an appointment with a sexologist to regain sexual energy beyond certain sensual practices. You have to know how to get help if the situation lasts too long and distances the partners . The analysis of a sex therapist sheds light on a fulfilling sexuality, the sexuality of our time is to be reinvented.

The “little guilty pleasures” are good for your couple

If you hide (little) things from your loved one, don’t panic, it’s probably good for your relationship. Explanations.

Do you sometimes hide (little) things from your husband/wife? Do you (for example) have a stash of chocolate stashed in the apartment that your partner doesn’t know about? Do you sometimes buy clothes, shoes, cosmetics… online without telling him?

Good news: these little guilty pleasures (provided they don’t cause suffering, such as infidelity, for example!) are good for your couple . This is the conclusion of a recent study conducted by researchers at Indiana University (in the United States) and published in the Journal of Consumer Psychology .

A (mild) guilt that can lead to greater investment in the relationship

The researchers worked with voluntary couples . First info: they discovered that 90% of the participants had “little secrets” towards their partners. ” The most amusing thing is that certain couples hide exactly the same things from each other: thus, two supposedly vegetarian people admitted to eating meat when their husband / wife was absent! “they underline.

“These little secrets can of course lead to guilt, but we have found that the latter is not necessarily negative since it can also lead to a greater investment in the relationship: greater attention to the needs of the other, a more consistent desire … full article

You have been sharing your life with another person for a long time, but it is no longer the same, you are no longer in love.

What should you do? Forget about the past and rebuild your life, perhaps, with someone else? Or maybe you want to give the affection you have for that person a chance? In life it is not easy to make decisions, and more so when they represent a turning point in our lives.

Love has become something sweetened; it is so Over the last few decades, mainly through movies coming from Hollywood, we have conceived this term as something that must be lived with extreme passion every day of our lives, and if not, it is not worth continuing. Are we right?

What happens to those couples who have spent years and years sharing their lives?

A priori everything seems really easy; When it seems that you no longer feel those famous butterflies when you see that special someone, “get rid” of it and try to find those feelings elsewhere. But… let’s face it, in real life it’s not as simple as it seems. What happens to those couples who have spent years and years sharing their lives? What about all the things they have built in common? Love is something that disappears, but affection and respect for that person is something that should never be lost, despite the fact that love is something that cannot be generalized and each couple should be analysed in an exhaustive way. But that is not our job.

why does love ends?

What we should give an explanation to is the question that many of you are asking yourselves right now; why does love ends? Without a doubt, something complicated to answer… as we have said, the reasons of each being will be based on their experience.

In an article promoted by the websiteit is explained to us that according to different scientific experts from the University of Western (Ontario, Canada) they carried out an investigation from which they obtained quite interesting results, and perhaps a little predictable; Both men and women commit three errors. Which? The following:

MEN WOMEN

• Lack of hygiene
• lack of sense of humor
• laziness lack of confidence
• No economic stability
• bad intimate relationships

It seems that stereotypes can become reality, don’t you think? These may be lawful and respectable reasons, and perhaps some of you feel identified with one of them, but perhaps we forget that the desire to break up can come from something that is part of our own being; That is why we would like to mention Luis de Rivera, a psychiatrist, who in an interview for the newspaper La Vanguardia explained that “ when we fall in love, our body secretes more adrenaline and noradrenaline, hormones that promote the search for physical contact. And that hormonal excess can last two or three years at most .”

When is it time to change partners?

The question then would be, when that … full article